A Fresh Look At …. The (Brilliant) Absurdity of Life

This conversation is a little bit difficult to summarise in a few words. Frank recounted a recent experience he had of observing his feelings, rather than being ‘inside’ those feelings. It pointed to the freedom or the neutrality that comes when we’re less attached to how we are feeling. This took us into a discussion of the form and formless—how we often pay more attention to the form, yet there is so much richness and dependability in the formless.

A Fresh Look At….. Overwhelm

This conversation began at overwhelm and finished up with us considering who the ‘me’ is that experiences overwhelm (or any other emotion).
We explored how overwhelm is the opposite of being in flow (flow might also be called ‘doing the next thing that’s in front of you’) and how being present to the task at hand is different from psychologically straying into a made up future or a recreated past. As we often do, we reflected on how understanding what’s happening—that our thinking has strayed from the present—is in itself helpful since it makes the whole experience less confusing or frightening. Sally and Anna gave two excellent examples of the way in which we can either be in our heads or be in life.
This led us to the question of who ‘me’ is and the freedom we can experience when we take ‘me’ a little less seriously.

A fresh look at…choices

Sandrine kicked off today’s conversation with a great example of the choices we begin to see when we get an inkling around where our experience is coming from. In a potential work drama, she spotted the option for non-drama and took it … then we pondered if not going into the drama makes life boring. We moved on to talk about the simplicity of doing the next thing that’s in front of you and the difference between the superficial connection that comes from swapping drama stories or gossip, and the deeper connection that’s available to all of us all of the time.

In essence, today’s call was about the difference in experience when you can spot the role thought is playing and when you can’t. Other examples were about self worth, uncertainty, and a thing we called participation energy. We finished up reflecting on how unbelievably grateful we are to have been introduced to this understanding and with Frank reading a beautiful poem called Coming Home by Sue Pettit.

A fresh look at riding out life’s ups and downs

This week life had thrown a few rocks in our paths (work conundrums, the prospect of a local lockdown, a boat accident, and dropping a phone in the sea, to name a few). We spoke about how reassuring it is to know that creative potential (a new experience of the same circumstance) is with us all of the time, even when we might feel distanced from it in the moment.

We went on to talk about ‘being in life’ or ‘letting life happen’ and how, when we’re ‘in’ life, rather than in our heads thinking about life, more often than not we know the next step to take. We also reflected on the way the Three Principles understanding is incremental—we see more by being in life and noticing what happens as we go through the natural cycles of getting caught up in our thinking, dropping thinking, and so on.

This led to some fun moments of clarity around the difference between focusing on what we want versus focusing on what is, and how, given that we are always experiencing whatever it is we’re paying attention to in each moment, a fresh experience is literally only ever a single thought away.

If you’re curious about the practitioners mentioned in this conversation, they were: Bill Pettit, Elsie Spittle, and Linda Pransky.